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OriginalName483 t1_iy5dtts wrote

Reply to comment by ag9910 in TIFU by probably outing a colleague by anonloserdude

He also asked for OPs phone to make the call and didn't seem like he was trying to hide it at all. I'm pretty sure A is fine with being recognized as gay.

Though calling him "the gay guy" isn't ideal, it was descriptive in that context for someone you barely know anything about and he doesn't sound bothered.

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anonloserdude OP t1_iy5enb0 wrote

I hope he's ok. I would rather he gets a message or call from me and him laughing at me, then him being upset.

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aussie_nub t1_iy6ftvl wrote

Ask him? Do it privately (and in person) and just be sincere. There's a reasonable chance that he'll be like "it's not a secret."

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