anonloserdude OP t1_iy5e0f9 wrote on November 28, 2022 at 9:42 PM

Reply to comment by ag9910 in TIFU by probably outing a colleague by anonloserdude

I haven't yet but I most certainly am going to. I more wanted to email HR to get his work contact info, but wasn't sure if he'd even want to speak to me or have an email from me. I'm worried that he perhaps went along with it all, to not cause a scene or something.

It's stuck in my head and this sounds weird but I wanted to give him some kind of ownership of choice back as he could choose to respond to me if emailed him or through HR, does that even make sense?

Specialist_Gas4186 t1_iy70x0s wrote on November 29, 2022 at 5:25 AM

It makes perfect sense. And it’s very noble of you. That you are trying to make this right speaks volumes about your character. I hope that your colleague is okay and can forgive you for what you clearly regret. Please let us know how it goes.