Submitted by Melodic-Spite-5918 t3_zv8nqi in tifu
doogieshnauser t1_j1pyzr9 wrote
Reply to comment by PushThePig28 in TIFU: I molested the girl I like and now I don't know how to live with myself by Melodic-Spite-5918
no. you must get consent before touching at all and touching elsewhere
otherwise you risk violating boundaries and being accused of sexual assault
PushThePig28 t1_j1q0ocu wrote
“Permission to play with the tiddies?” “Permission granted”
Or “can I put my hand in your pants” isn’t sexy
Honestly you can usually tell when people are open to it (well not this guy). If someone tells you they have a boundary simply don’t cross it.
justinkroegerlake t1_j1q9umo wrote
"can I touch your chest" / "is it okay if I touch your chest" works fine and won't ruin anything. Or you just ask early on "let me know what's too much" and if nothing is too much she'll tell you something to that effect.
Honestly it is too easy for guys to not realize how scary it can be for a woman to say no or stop. Make it easier
zeigzag666 t1_j1qe1yr wrote
Doesn't matter of it's sexy, it's crucial. And most people appreciate being considerate enough to ask for consent.
If you are dating someone who is turned off by you asking for consent, run. I dated someone like this once and they turned out to be very mentally unstable.
doogieshnauser t1_j1qgg2p wrote
rape much?
there are way better ways to ask than you said here. some other posters have mentioned some good options above and below.
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