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Alwayspuzzles t1_j19abgn wrote

Reply to comment by Dimalen in TIFU by riding my bf by [deleted]

Before my current partner I have not even enjoyed being on top and Ive tried both grinding and bouncing. It didn't feel like anything to me My previous partners have only enjoyed bouncing so I have done it for them. With my current partner grinding feels great for both of us. So from my experience I just think people are built differently and because of that fit better in different ways.

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Dimalen t1_j19bo6i wrote

Yeah it must be the anatomy most of all, so weird that we are THIS different. Hope everyone finds those who is perfect for them ❤️

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Alwayspuzzles t1_j19cdbr wrote

Yea it is strange and I hope so til! I always assumed it was me who was built different when Ive read so much about how it is other womens favourite position. But I realise just now that I have had a different favourite position with every partner ^^

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Dimalen t1_j19dzj3 wrote

For sure! Also I think the other reason why it surprises me is when someone advises the grinding instead of bouncing, so many times the answer is "hmm I will try, didn't think about it" is so weird to me. That it's not even an option for many and the default action is to bounce

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