Kyuthu t1_j6cdfk3 wrote
Reply to comment by SatyaNi in TIFU: Said something hateful to my husband by [deleted]
What are you talking about. It's in her comments.
SatyaNi t1_j6cef1c wrote
That he went. Not that he vented.
Why assume the worst ?
RedPine1234 t1_j6chqqr wrote
She also said that she’ll have to go through it with them later. Implying that he’s vented to them in the past and coloured their opinion of her, which she then has to deal with. Did you miss that?
Kyuthu t1_j6chzjv wrote
It's not assuming, it's inferring directly from what she has said. 'I'm sure he's blowing out to his family so I'll have to deal with their shit later too". That's not something you say when this isn't a normal occurrence or something you've had to deal with before. You don't usually spout totally irrelevant assumptions out with no bases like that. Then you add on that he's held money over her head multiple times in the past, because he earns/pays more than her towards their house/life and suddenly her responses, whilst wrong, all make sense.
It's not assuming anything, it's taking directly from her post and the various comments she's made in the thread
SatyaNi t1_j6cm1ow wrote
My comment was also for her. He went to his mom's.
May be to seek advices, maybe for getting some confort.
By assuming that he went to complain, there is little chance the situation wil end peacefully
sorry_outtafucks t1_j6czxq2 wrote
I agree with you. OP is speculating, unless he's consistently done this before. Also, OP hasn't apologized yet. Her husband is sitting there stewing on the untrue and hurtful comment - I would need some space from her too.
SatyaNi t1_j6d7wqw wrote
The main problem I think is that it is not the first time that this occure.
Both of them seems to compete zbout who do the most for the kid.
It began with OP complaining about the father involvment in the begining, and him bein defensive.
As far as I know, that is a tecipe for à nasty break up brewing.
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