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Significant_Anteater t1_j6lxjoj wrote

This is theft - the appropriation of the property of another with the intention to permanently deprive. Present a united front to your parents that you both intend to go to the police station and press for criminal charges to be filed, that you are the victims of a crime, and the witnesses of the crime, and your testimony will likely corroborate. Then if the money isn’t returned and him punished within 24 hours, go to the police file a police report. The little shit will learn the lesson your negligent, coddling parents aren’t teaching him.

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Talarin20 t1_j6mbnb4 wrote

This is prime advice if you want to act on emotions without any consideration of the consequences.

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Significant_Anteater t1_j6mnpnd wrote

Then I guess you should read my other comment in the dialogue where I discuss consequences and dynamics. Plus, I would think, this is the opposite of an emotive, reactionary response.

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Tanagrabelle t1_j6mcz7w wrote

Record them bragging about it, and report to the police or someone like that. You may even have a case. Sort of. I know, it's not that easy. This is more of an impulse advice.

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markwell9 t1_j6mebh5 wrote

At least where I live, this would never fly in any way. Police would call it a domestic issue that should be done through civil court.

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[deleted] OP t1_j6ly0l7 wrote

My sister wanted to go to the police but then said it was a lot of work 😂

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Significant_Anteater t1_j6m0etd wrote

It really isn’t. You could start with a phone call to the police. I mean, people are throwing solutions at you in this thread, you know the players better than us and how they would react to each. Making a police statement really isn’t much work. The overriding issue is what the impact will be on family dynamics and whether there will be any retaliation. But also, don’t let people walk all over you either. Present reasonable solutions to your parents, and then the worst case solution. But make sure people know they can’t walk all over you, especially in your own home! Silent treatment isn’t working, trying an alternative. Best of luck!

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