Thanks, that’s probably the best idea “:)

Yeah, that’s what I’ve done. At this point from you and other comments I can see I’m probably not going to be able to introduce them to anyone. We have a few other places, honestly I should know my house is off limits. Thanks for the advice, its nice to get an outside perspective :)

You’re completely right. I have tried to de-escalate but it’s really clear I’ve got to be firmer tbh. Thanks for the reply, it’s helpful to hear this from an outside perspective :)

Yeah, I know, I’m working on it. I forgot to say my partner did want to meet them, but honestly I should’ve been more clear about the situation. I’ve told him my house should probably be a no go unless no one is in, but thanks for confirming it’s a good idea :)

Look, I’m gonna be honest, he said he’d like to meet my parents and be a part of the family, and my family wanted to meet him. I thought they might not for once, but they did. I discussed with him, and honestly we’ve come to the agreement my house is off limits.

I know it’s probably naïve I thought it would be any different, but thanks for the wake up. I appreciate it :)