Andle_Randle
Andle_Randle t1_jaf37u8 wrote
Reply to My (24M) girlfriend (22F) of 6 months keeps accusing me of cheating and now it’s getting out of hand. by psychomantist
A relationship being run by insecurities is not a healthy one. It's her responsibility to work on her insecurities, not yours to be bending over backwards to accommodate them.
Andle_Randle t1_j6nsjye wrote
Reply to I (19 f) and my partner (20m) are still young, should I worry about our different ideas about having kids? by Weird_Permission1250
Staying in a relationship with the hopes that someone is going to change their mind about a significant thing that can't be compromised on isn't a good idea. Leaving is only going to get harder the longer you stay.
Andle_Randle t1_j6lg5gn wrote
Reply to My 22F girlfriend of 1 month cheated on me 32M and lied about it what should I do by [deleted]
You should just cut your losses and leave. She cheated on you within weeks of making things official and straight up told you that she can't guarantee it won't happen again. Like, cmon man, this is in no way a stable foundation to build a relationship on, and you definitely haven't been dating long enough to make sticking around and hoping she changes worthwhile.
Andle_Randle t1_iyfaats wrote
Go. College is far more concrete than a relationship. She might seem perfect right now, but you have no idea if you'll work out long-term. There is also the possibility that you'll come to resent choosing her over your dream school. Choosing a relationship over something as important as college is not a smart choice.
Andle_Randle t1_jaf4vf0 wrote
Reply to I (24f) dated someone (28m) who crossed my boundaries, what do I do now? by chasingdandelions
You could tell him that after what happened the night before you aren't interested in meeting up again.