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BettyWhitesBigTits t1_j6bkjfl wrote
Reply to Where are the queer bars/places? by ravenclaw188
Ive been a bartender in LGBTQ establishments for 30+ years in Boston and other places. I will catch shit for this but it needs to be said. The reason for the complete lack of Lesbian spaces is because Lesbians ruin them.
Lesbians in general do not drink like men. They may order one drink and sip on it for the evening. They are also shitty tippers. They might tip a quarter on a drink if you're lucky. How is a bar or bar staff supposed to stay alive under those terms?
Lesbians also fight way more than gay men so there is the hassle of dealing with the police, the licensing board and insurance. Ever wonder why club cafe uses plastic cups........?
Back in the day there used to be more pickup trucks in Randolph Country Club than a Ford dealership. At the end of the night the "ladies" would be beating the crap out of each other before making up and moving in with each other the next day.
I haven't worked in a place that caters to women in many many years. Its not just a Boston thing. Its a nationwide thing.
BettyWhitesBigTits t1_j6k454j wrote
Reply to comment by Born_Ad_4826 in Where are the queer bars/places? by ravenclaw188
> Intersectional oppression
Yes, because every lesbian is low paid and oppressed.