Bhap1
Bhap1 t1_iy1ichq wrote
Reply to comment by probablywrongbutmeh in Stop talking about celebrities and they will stop being celebrities by thumpingcoffee
Ah right then ,bet shes crying over her billion dollar franchise. she must be living on a straw bed by now, bless her. You cant be a 1 hit wonder if you write 7 smash hits in a row that basically represents one of the grandest literary works ever wrote, my dear.
Bhap1 t1_iy0vrp6 wrote
Celebrities weren't forced upon us human worship is innate to humans. The onus isnt on the consumer to stop worshipping them since its a natural human drive, if you want celebrities to go away you'd have to remove the incentive for them to exist or to ban their existence through legislation.
Bhap1 t1_j6umxyf wrote
Reply to [Discussion] Do you have a framework for deciding if you are resting/pushing yourself enough? Is it qualitative? Quantitative? Please share! by MeoMix
A lot of what you type is based in reality so I presume youve done a lot of reading on it. Willpower is a finite resource: if you have to expend a lot of delayed gratification in one are a of your life you have to be mindful of other areas that require willpower as you will be more prone to failure. As you stated it's hard to gauge how you are feeling in respect to how you felt a week, month, years ago and its hard to accurately gauge whether burnout is approaching.
You should do more reading on the matter. I think there would be a fairly good framework somewhere that could be boiled into a few variables for your game. I doubt you'd have to come up with anything groundbreaking, read a couple books on willpower, addiction (will verse you in what happens when motivation goes awry) and the like.
Some general things I think may prove useful:
My main takeaway is you should probably have an intrinsic/extrinsic motivation variable in your game. See it this way, if you are extrinsically motivated (money, status), you may rally to slog on but it may be at the expense of internal happiness. If you set out to do something because you simply enjoy it, want to thrive and such, you may be happier, but it might not make you pursue a high money, high pressure job. Extrinsically motivated people may be more successful materially but you never 'get there'. Youre always chasing the dragon, its fleeting as you say. So there is probably an internal/external tradeoff to beinputting into your game. Perhaps it can even calculate how internally/externally motivated you are through several variables. And the tradeoffs will be apparent. (money/status vs self actualization/contentness). Read a book on drugaddiction andhow it impacts decision making to get a good grasp on how willpower can fluctuate and include that. Supernatural stimuli and the such will would have negative impact on longterm sustained work and tenacity. Lack of self defragmenting through journalling, positive affirmations, talking therapy, mentoring and such would have a negative impact on self actualization / internal motivation
Another variable I would look into is 'LOVE'. And not meaning a partner. Love broadly speaking would mean acceptance and valued in community, a number of friends who are lifelong friends who you trust to confide with and speak freely without fear of consequence (like family), strength of connections with others. Remember that humans are social creatures and its the cornerstone of life. It definitely has its place in your game. Social isolation makes people mentally ill. Look up how solitary confinement changes the brain. A lot of people live to that level of social depravity despite not being in prison.
Hope this helps