BunInTheSun27
BunInTheSun27 t1_ja4qbr9 wrote
TIL this is passive aggression sadlol
BunInTheSun27 t1_j8vfonn wrote
Reply to comment by dgmahfudga23 in LPT REQUEST: How to wash my clothes so they feel store bought? by sensible__
Lay flat works but it’s a pain in the ass sometimes. You can also buy a folding drying rack if the knit can support itself (a problem with women’s clothes sometimes, idk about men’s).
BunInTheSun27 t1_j7dgreb wrote
Reply to comment by Rievin in TIL that Taylor Lautner's wife is also named Taylor Lautner by a_hall
I did know someone who dated only Maddies (as far as I could tell). Maybe 5 in a row? His name unfortunately was not Matt lmao
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BunInTheSun27 t1_j1s12qs wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIL Sigmund Freud made the decision to flee Austria after his daughter Anna was interrogated by the Gestapo for nearly 12 hours. He was able to buy safe passage out of Austria just in time with 31,000 Reich marks in 1938 by Ok_Copy5217
If you talk to those people missing their families from other wars and genocides, you will generally find that they too miss their families. The reason you’re “constantly” hearing about this one is because it had so many fucking casualties so recently that people are, in fact…still missing their families.
BunInTheSun27 t1_ixspjdp wrote
Reply to LPT: In winter air becomes dry and dehydrates you,make soup part of daily diet. by BigDapRamirez
I personally think this is a fun idea. Of course you can drink just water, like many point out, but the reason to vary the intake types is to overcome flavor boredom. Very common phenomenon. It’s why it’s easier to eat a lot of many kinds of foods than a lot of one food only (ie the foundation of many funny restriction “diets”). This tip takes advantage of that psychological phenomenon and uses it to make a healthy habit fun! It’s the same reason I have many kinds of tea and seltzer flavorings.
BunInTheSun27 t1_iujvieo wrote
Reply to comment by Combatical in TIL - Contrary of what everybody thinks, if you park your car at a dark spot at night, the chances of theft are smaller, because thieves don't like to use lights. by JosZo
Did you open the peer-reviewed source of this post?
BunInTheSun27 t1_iuezsmb wrote
Reply to comment by Flowofinfo in LPT: Birthdays and Growing up by diilym1230
Some people care and that’s ok.
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Reply to Differences in public and producer attitudes toward animal welfare in the red meat industries -- The results indicate a polarization between the public and livestock producers in their attitudes toward animal welfare, knowledge of husbandry practices and trust in livestock people. by Meatrition
Oh it’s Meatrition, back again
BunInTheSun27 t1_jaeu3z6 wrote
Reply to comment by Wyush in LPT Request - how to respond to people who constantly try to one-up you and diminish your accomplishments? by idkifik
Disclaimer: I am a late-bloomer socially, but I do generally like talking with people when not under attack from weird forms of social anxiety.
Something along the lines of acknowledging what they said first would help. I.e, “Oh cool, you went to Paris!“
Then, ask follow-up questions: “I’ve heard there’s great food in France. What was a favorite meal there?”
Acknowledge again: “A simple croissant at the Louvre? Sounds lovely.”
Question more if you’d like: “Did you get to do everything you hoped for?”
Acknowledging again: “Ah, Notre Dame was still under construction from the fire. I heard about that, what a shame.”
Tbh you can do this for as long as you’d like. It gets easier the more you do it. Of course there is the chance of coming off as a interviewer, which is why acknowledging what they said and sympathizing (meal at the Lourve = lovely, missed out on Notre Dame = a shame) are important. But people like talking about themselves generally, so it’s easier than you’d think.
It’s possible to hold an entire conversation without talking about oneself. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Leaving them to want more is ok! Wanting to connect is a human trait, it’s an honor to be the witness to someone else’s sharing. Your time to share will come, and with practice you might find that if they never ask you a direct question themselves, you can decide how much energy to give then. Does that make sense?