Please just talk to him. Talk! Just chat anytime anything upsets you. Get it out of the system. Nip it in the bud before it becomes a big oozing festering blister. I had a chat with my husband early on after we had our first baby. 3 kids later, he’s the star from 5pm-8pm, Monday through Friday!

I live in New England, and tons of jobs are available without qualification that starts at $15 here, specifically retail because of the holiday season. Honestly if you’re young and want a career I’d suggest even a city or government entry position just to get in. You’ll get raises every year and adjustments for inflation, great benefits and a pension. You may start low, around what you were making before but you will double what you make in a a few years.

In my state Starbucks pays over $15 an hour. It’s nice you have options to not have work to support yourself and/or your family while looking for your dream job but not all of us have that option. While working for $3 less an hour you can still look a better job. Are you really pounding the pavement 24/7 to look for jobs? There’s absolutely no downtime at all?

I’m in! Just don’t know which brand! I’ll do some research 🧐

So gross, funny, but oh so gross.. I’ve been wanting to try a cup so thank you for that advice, I’ll always flush it clean first!

There’s a million places looking for help especially for the holidays. Why not start at Starbucks? Or a local store you like? Whole Foods? Target? Who ISNT hiring right now? I don’t understand how you don’t have a job if you’re able bodied and young. I’d be mad if I were in your boyfriends situation too, but nothing would ever result in violence or abuse. Leave now! But jobs should not be an issue!