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Cute_Unit_3157 t1_j685xno wrote

The question is how are YOU going to fix this? This may be one of the BIGGEST fuckups on here. A real fuck up. CONGRATS! You just won the sub.😑

If YOU’RE going down, YOU better go down swinging! YOU own that shit, YOU go in there and explain to her boss, the one YOU were comfortable with, and YOU tell him exactly this! YOU tell him he was the sounding board she was, and that she’s the best boss YOU’VE had!

YOU take ownership in YOUR fuckup, and YOU bring YOUR coworkers in to rally for HER!

And YOU better give us an update.

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Cute_Unit_3157 t1_j25i6tl wrote

You had a moment. You picked your poison. You can’t change that. You need to understand that… and she needs to accept that.

If you guys want to be together, then try it.

Tell her, and explain it. You screwed up big time.

If it were me I’d ask if you guys could at least take everything step by step and day by day. And, if I’m the end she can’t forgive you then it’s best you two separate. Neither of you need to be miserable at such a young age.

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Cute_Unit_3157 t1_j0cbeey wrote

Look… it’s simple. Friends are there for you to lean on and lift up… and you for them.

If it’s that much of a problem then it’s time to let that toxicity go. Life is too short for extra drama.

Myself, I’m nice to everyone and if they need me I’m there, and if I can’t be then I can’t help it. Life truly can be a bitch, and that’s ok.

Enjoy your family time, and tell your dad to chill out… it is in fact your life. And, afterwards if you want to, go find your friends.

Or stay home and chill. There’s nothing wrong with that from time to time either.

Good luck. I take my hermitude seriously… and when I have people around I play hospitality and when they leave I play selfish hermit. I made it a point to make my house feel like a vacation spot. So, when I want to get away from the busyness of life, I go home.

Sorry, I went way off course there. I think I may have just turned into my grandpa here.

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Cute_Unit_3157 t1_iuay0cb wrote

It’s a process. Naturally there’s communication issues given the circumstances but it’s a step that may or may not have been taken too soon.

My advice, given the situation, stop with the shorthand and text everything out. You and him, so there’s no grey area.

You’ll both be fine, and tell him or remind him you’re not going anywhere unless he asks you to, and let time prove itself out.

Good luck.

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