because it’s not a compliment, at least not in the sense of an actual compliment.
He is basically saying you’re a good mom because you’re willing to stay and put up with his behavior. I’m sorry to say that’s not a good mom that’s someone who is trapped by manipulation and needs to leave.
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Reply to comment by georgie3452 in [35F] [33M] cheating spouse keeps telling me I’m a “good mother” and it bugs me, but I understand why. by georgie3452
because it’s not a compliment, at least not in the sense of an actual compliment.
He is basically saying you’re a good mom because you’re willing to stay and put up with his behavior. I’m sorry to say that’s not a good mom that’s someone who is trapped by manipulation and needs to leave.