I doubt the real problem is the door. Sounds like she has deeper issues with you and if I had to guess I would say it’s probably the video games.

You need to decide if you are comfortable staying with this person and never being Mary if you’re uncomfortable with that and you absolutely need to be married in life you’re going to have to break up with this guy because he’s not going to do it. He said seven years and I know seven years he decided he doesn’t want to be married to you. He’s not going to do it any promises he makes her out of obligation if you feel pressured to do so he doesn’t actually need them and he’s not gonna follow through. He said seven years to do it he’s not going to so either you need to walk away or decide that you’re good with the way things are and you just accept it.

First of all, I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. And good job on blocking them both. I think it’s in your best interest to have no contact with either of those people from now on. Know that you will heal from this. It’s probably gonna hurt for a while but you were eventually will get over it. Time will help you until the time passes, spend time and energy on yourself do things to make you happy take you out on dates by yourself flowers get your hair done take a course and something interesting just for fun that you like go out with friends surround yourself with positive people and positive influences try exercising just to make yourself feel better with those endorphins spend time with family that you love that makes you feel good. Take dogs for a walk to the animal shelter just focus on you and who you want to become and you will heal from this. I’m so sorry it happened. Also know that you didn’t deserve any of this. It shows that he is a terrible person and it shows nothing about you or that you’re loving and willing to look for the good of people this wasn’t your fault in the slightest.

It doesn’t matter what 10000 internet strangers think. If this is CHEATING TO YOU, then he cheated. Go from there.

What? This doesn’t have any info as to what happened. You told us: Girlfriend didn’t like a photo. You fell asleep. She packed her shit and left.

Wat?

Then YOU plan a date. YOU take him on a date. You plan the fun events and lead by example. Then you can ask he do the same. If you are just sitting around too you are equally responsible for the boring relationship.

This a troll.

Just bring really good snacks.

It’s going to be fun and some one is going to compliment your top. Just talk about what you liked & disliked. Was there and symbolism? The book clubs I’ve been to usually involved a lot of wine.

It sounds like you spent a long time typing: my bf is a broke ass who doesn’t pull his own weight and blames me for his failure. Just dump the looser.

This is a word salad. I don’t understand your point(s).

You are married. You have promised your life to your partner. If you can’t respect that then leave your partner and let them have a life with a faithful person. If ANY friendship comes in between you and your married partner you need to END that friendship. You can’t have both. If the friend means more to you than the wife then leave the wife. If you don’t want to loose the wife loose the friend. This has already crossed over into the danger zone.

No. If you do something to your body that could impact future generations (e.g. radiation) then yes. Your future kids will inherit those problems. If you eat msdonalds constantly your kids can still live a normal life (*********some studies point out problems with this but I don’t have the sources.)