Not a single person has commented saying it’s transphobic. I think you have the wrong end of the stick here thinking people are going to hate.

I feel like this shows that you have a lack of understand on what is or isn’t transphobic and the damage that actual transphobia can cause with this comment

This isn’t a transphobic joke. In fact, it is actually quite progressive. It uses the correct pronouns for the man who has transitioned and it is accurate to say before someone transitioned that they were a her in the past (assuming that the person did at one point in their life refer to them self has she/her.

I don’t like transphobic jokes at all but this isn’t one of them