When your significant other wonders why you are so happy in 30 years.

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"Well, there was this one time, 30 years ago, this cute......"

Stunted social ability can often come from many things, she might be a fully functioning adult in other settings than with her parents.

For me, this seems like a socially abusive relationship, however it is impossible to draw such conclusions from just this short piece of text.

Honestly, your parents sounds like they are a negative in your life from this post. So if they treat you like this in other parts of your life, you might want to take some time to think through if you might need to create some distance between you, then reevaluate after some time.

aquavit are often made on aged barrels, this is what gives them the yellow/brown color. When they tap from differing barrels, they use coloring to make them all have the correct color.

If the aquavit isn't made on old barrels it is blank in color.

You are 20, brain freaks out and do stupid shit sometimes at that age. It's what happens.