HaysteRetreat
HaysteRetreat t1_jaxe3wa wrote
Reply to comment by Chuckomo in People convicted of a federal cannabis possession charge can now apply to have the conviction removed from their records by OregonTripleBeam
One big point of all of this is that people who would otherwise be productive members of society are being prevented from fully contributing to the economy because of their criminal record.
Personal freedoms yaddayadda but the societal point of incarceration and keeping track of convictions is to limit people who would negatively impact the rest of society from doing so.
When laws go too far and you limit productive people, you harm everyone.
So ultimately it's not even about them and whatever sense of "justice" that compels the dumb parts of our human brains to feel its unfair that someone else is able to "get away with" breaking rules when we follow them.
HaysteRetreat t1_j8nc4gb wrote
Reply to comment by CavemanSlevy in [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
Heck my take is society will actively push you to be what it wants at the expense of your true self. That may be changing slowly but cultural and familial expectations have led to a lot of people acting exactly as they thought the world was telling them and ending up miserable.
HaysteRetreat t1_j8nb8xq wrote
Reply to comment by thaddeus423 in [Image] The world will ask you who you are, and if you don't know, the world will tell you. by crm_expert
Your comment is more motivating than the quote to me.
Life or the world may tell you who you are but only if you know how to listen and don't confuse it with society telling you who it wants you to be.
Because that second bit is a trap that can kill identities and make for a miserable life.
HaysteRetreat t1_j7yex1z wrote
Reply to comment by lucky_ducker in [image] I think talking to ourselves like how the babysitter did with the girl, and having fun would be good for all ages! by Tonkinjg
I wonder if it's just encouragement or this engaging with specificity as encouragement so a child can build an association between what they did with positive interactions . "When I draw it makes the babysitter happy and they play with me in a fun voice".
As opposed to "when I draw I am praised and called talented".
Basically focusing on how the child makes people feel instead of just how good or skilled the child is.... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
HaysteRetreat t1_j435lxs wrote
Reply to [image] by _Cautious_Memory
Maybe this just isnt for me but as someone who struggles in a feedback loop between low self-esteem and maladaptive perfectionism I already beat the crap out of myself for not being better. Someone else telling me to expect even more from myself is the last thing I need.
HaysteRetreat t1_jb0wy66 wrote
Reply to comment by alexmbrennan in People convicted of a federal cannabis possession charge can now apply to have the conviction removed from their records by OregonTripleBeam
Lol death penalty for jaywalking then.
Or at least right to jail.
The fact that there even is more than one punishment at all is pretty clear that your premise isn't considered true. Every human society has independently agreed that there are different severities to breaking the law. Arguably based on how much the violation negatively impacts society.
If we determine a violation or collection of violations means a person CANT contribute to society with a net positive we typically imprison them for life or send them to Texas and hit them with a brick.
The average American breaks 3 laws per day . Insert joke about the average American* but basically: people aren't perfect, and by extension, law makers and enforcers certainly aren't either. The racial disparity in drug arrests and sentencing is just one example.