Ohh sry. I had that backwards.

Some people are in a lot of pain.

Even TV shows point out situations that it could make sense. House,MD

https://youtu.be/V-b7Lu0B9Jo

Never seen whale oil in Maine.

Power companies in Maine are pretty terrible. There might be some engineering challenges but nothing that should cause this many more outages.

You could point to gender roles or biology. Men often try to make themselves exceptional in some way.

I cant find the source quickly but some reasearch found that men see about half the women they know as potential mates. This means women just need to be better than half to be considered by men. This isnt consciously done obviously but at some level most women are just tryig to be better than half.

Women only see 1-3 men as potential mates. Its a limited number independent of how many men they interact with. This means men need to excel or be exceptional in some way. If they arent then what is the point in trying.

In life this plays out as men reaching for extreems more often. And giving up if they wont be seen as exceptional.

If your not first, your last.

But my article is more convincing if the difference looks bigger.....i feel like the difference is this big...

Instagram...hmm yes...equal numbers of women showing each other pics and men stalking them.

Ok, maybe not but i think there is a huge gender difference in how the platform is used.