Sometimes especially in certain cultures, the latter has far far better outcomes. This kind of thing can turn into a person being completely disowned by their family and tossed on the street with absolutely nothing. I see a bit of that fear in OP's post. It's terrible but some cultures believe that strongly I suppose...

Tbh those are the best kind of puns, I for one hate the dude but god damn that's funny as fuck, full follow through on it too, that's dedication to the bit lmao