Intheboxalready

Intheboxalready t1_iyf4tjz wrote

Sorry you had to deal with that kind of abuse. It's amazing that you have this patience with your dad and still desire that he be a part of your life.

If you still at home, you need to move out and separate yourself from this abuse. Counseling/therapy will be helpful. You can invite your parents to be a part of your life, but have healthy boundaries and make them clear to your parents. Let them know how your dad's abusive behavior affects you and that you need to have boundaries . Might even be a good idea to write it in a letter so they have time to reflect on it before responding. Best wishes to you.

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Intheboxalready t1_iyeu3s7 wrote

" so I have been faithful recently." wtf does that mean? If you cheated on your husband, you need to tell him. You are not only cheating, but lying and deceiving him as well. He is married to the person you are pretending to be. It's beyond shitty if you don't tell him. You are shitty anyways if you cheated......

He should not be stuck with your affair baby. You sound so selfish......

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