Says some guy

Lol ok bro

But you're literally on Reddit right now though. 🤔

I didn't come here to read an endless novel about some random dude's armchair expertise in female sexual psychology, that's for sure.

https://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_400/444_ejaculation-etiquette.html

Ok if you're only receptive to men's opinions on women's sexuality and don't want to hear it from women, here's another source that you won't find so "toxic".

https://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_400/444_ejaculation-etiquette.html

No, that's absolutely wrong. You should always assume women DON'T want a surprise mouthful of jizz unless they've explicitly told you otherwise. If you haven't discussed it, at least give a little warning so they can decide for themselves in the moment.

I see you would rather not know what women really think of an unexpected mouthful of jizz. 🚩🚩🚩

She can't know that it was accidental. Even if he says so, it's reasonable to have doubts given that men are notorious for intentionally evading sexual consent, lying to get laid, and doing fucked up things like stealthing to maximize their sexual gratification at their partners' expense.

And she ended the encounter and left and is not responding to messages. Is that what trust looks like to you?

Go to TwoX and see what most women actually think about men cumming in their mouths without any warning or prior discussion please.

She doesn't know it was non-malicious. How could she possibly know that? He claimed he could go for hours and then came all over her almost immediately, without any prior discussion or warning. He broke her trust and it turned her all the way off. It's totally predictable, not "incongruous".

BTW sex is not "supposed to be nasty". You need to talk to your partners about what they actually want and watch less porn.

Whatever. Just don't unload into anybody's mouth without any warning unless you've discussed it beforehand and know that they're enthusiastically into that kind of thing.

If she didn't want a mouthful of jizz and for her sexy outfit to be covered in jizz, it's totally understandable that she cleaned herself up and left. "What usually happens" when you break the trust of a brand new partner by doing something like that without any warning or prior agreement is that she isn't into it any more and wants to leave, and probably not come back for more. Which is exactly what happened here.

That doesn't mean it's not salvageable, he's just going to have to work pretty hard to rebuild that trust if he ever wants a "round 2". And he's going to have to sincerely apologize for the unexpected jizzy surprise and tell her the honest truth about why he thought he wouldn't immediately cum as soon as she paid a little attention to his knob.

No no no - nobody expects or wants you to cum after only three bobs of the head, with no warning and no prior discussion, into their mouth and all over them. She wanted to have sex and get off also, and then she didn't. "Something came up" and she left. Does that sound like somebody who "wanted" a jizzy mess?

OP don't listen to this guy. She definitely didn't want that. But it's possible she would understand, forgive, have a laugh about it with you, and give you another chance.

I think it's in "On Writing". I could check.

I think he wrote that the Bachman books were trashy and at one point he wanted to be a "serious" author who was known for literature.

There will be other sparks. Live and learn.

These things are fantastic if you need to work long shifts alone in a boom or scissor lift. I used to avoid lift calls (a type of lighting work in film and TV) until a male supervisor cracked open a supply drawer and gave me one. He liked to send the Teamsters (big burly biker types mostly) to pick them up, so that he could put the women on the team in the air. Life changing. I ended up loving lift calls - hours and hours either driving these big fuckoff machines around or tucked up cozy in a sleeping bag watching Rick and Morty with a panoramic view of the whole city while the ground crew busted their asses. Highly recommended!

Also popular with pilots apparently.