you don't trust your boyfriend - break up - or just fight about it. you are not going to magically start trusting him next year..

the phone calls? don't answer calls from numbers you don't know.

you are absolutely right about your bf and his friends - birds of a feather flock together.

good luck!

Good luck to you! Always enjoy your life the way you want.

It sounds like you did try, and it hasn't really worked. I vote you tell him that it is time to move on.

All i see here is you don't like this relationship. How do either of you work or go to school while communicating like this? There isn't time for anything else.

Also, his behavior is way out there. And it is not appropriate for a fairly new relationship.

If you don't 100% want to move to where he is, DON'T!