As someone who hates having their picture taken, this sounds a lot like a them problem and not a me problem.
Let people have their boundaries without trying to guilt them into doing things they don't want to because "what about your friends and family who love and miss you".
Ruskyt t1_iydu278 wrote
Reply to comment by returnofGorgorokh in LPT: Let yourself be photographed at special events, family gatherings and by friends in general, even if you don't like your picture taken for any reason. by [deleted]
For real.
I hate being in pictures. Respect my boundaries.