There's no difference. I requested to have it garnished because I was losing work weekly to go down and pay in person

I get cheated on. Move out. Get denied access to my child. Go to court to right this and I the father is somehow responsible to work even harder to co parent and establish a healthy level of communication? Maybe others need to change I've done all I can

Did you fight it out of spite for your exs new found happiness?

Mother decided to not answer calls and refuse visits. I was left with no chocie but to go into court and get an enforceable order that she couldn't pick and choose from

Plenty of people on this thread who agree. Pretty sure it's you acting like your case is a universal outcome here!must be easier to get 50/50 from a custy

Yes and even more so when the mother receives state benefits

I'm sorry that you're going thru the same things I have as well. Keep on fighting the fight

According to the experts here it does. Apparently I'm just a POS who's not telling the whole story 🤣🤣🤣

Lmaooo whatever my friend. You're right you know it best.

I am an everyday guy. I work and come home. I have no criminal record. I've never been in trouble. I have nothing to hide. If I wanted to leave things out I would have not posted

I petitioned the court was given every other weekend and every Wed 4 to 8.

It may be a federal formula but what's the formula for mothers? It's never the same when the shoes on the other foot. Sad it took you 20k just to be a dad to the children you helped produce. Some people in these comments can't grasp that into their little brains

Rethink that one bud. Mass might be worse

Child support is paid out to the custodial parent. 50/50 there is no custodial parent meaning you're both equally responsible. I have a friend with split custody and CSO was ended the day it was ordered. You may be paying into health insurance but I highly doubt one parent is financially responsible when they share the same time with said child. Not everything goes as smooth as your case may have. I know 10x more people with issues then ones who don't. Congrats on your success but not all of us are that lucky. No need to lie.

Lmaooo no I have no skeletons. Im an everyday working guy. And 50/50 custody? You just make things up at this point. Any parent in courts knows they will never order 50/50 because they can't order child support. The standard visitation is every other weekend and every Wednesday evening. Try to look into things before speaking on em. 4 whole days and 4 half days is the standard. I'd love to see where you find the courts heavily invested in split custody...

Sad. I watch a close friend fight tooth and nail for $20 a week from his daughters mother. Brings her to court and nothing comes of it. I miss $9 of the $279 and they want me in the ACI for the weekend

One huge double standard. I know men who've been forced to turn in Job application sheets that they call and confirm your looking for work (good look to new employers) and I've seen mothers sit there and claim they don't work and get ordered $20 a week. Doesn't really have to pay it tho. Keeps license, passport,and taxes. God forbid a payment wasn't processed on time for a man and his license is gone for 6 months

Absolutely. You also can't predict the future. I don't think most of us would have had a kid with someone knowing you'd walk into them getting railed by a "close friend" years later

You know what's gross as well? The treatment of fathers in the family courts. We're not second class walking pay checks for mom.

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