Have been on the receiving end of this once. A girl I knew for a long time decided to tell me that she really wished to be in a relationship with me even though I was already in one and happy. I didn't feel the same and she kept going with the long texts. I really didn't have any chance to think over things and decided it was better to just take a pause from this person.
It ruined any decent chance of us staying as the good friends we were (known each other for 10+ years). Still talk with her occasionally but it's just not the same anymore and I don't feel comfortable being personal with her now and probably never will.
SafeStranger3 t1_iyec3bk wrote
Reply to LPT: Spilling your emotions to someone who goes cold won’t win them over, it will push them away even more by MO_drps_knwldg
Have been on the receiving end of this once. A girl I knew for a long time decided to tell me that she really wished to be in a relationship with me even though I was already in one and happy. I didn't feel the same and she kept going with the long texts. I really didn't have any chance to think over things and decided it was better to just take a pause from this person.
It ruined any decent chance of us staying as the good friends we were (known each other for 10+ years). Still talk with her occasionally but it's just not the same anymore and I don't feel comfortable being personal with her now and probably never will.