ShadyAdvise

ShadyAdvise t1_je0dsly wrote

Reply to comment by oursisfury in RVA vs. Evernest by harpervn

You replied to the wrong message and you are spreading the wrong message. Focus on the facts brother, I house people who need help and you attack people who you disagree with online. Stay blessed in this holy month of Ramadan my brother 🙏🏽

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ShadyAdvise t1_je07kry wrote

Reply to comment by oursisfury in RVA vs. Evernest by harpervn

And yours is? I offered an option to move that many seem to be ignoring. You may disagree but it is an option available. You added what? "Yeah, I don't like this guy's idea!" Very solid contribution my brother

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ShadyAdvise t1_jdz62ei wrote

Reply to comment by futuregeneration in RVA vs. Evernest by harpervn

I am an American citizen. You not addressing the two points I made above and instead trying to make the focus that I am a foreigner tells me everything I need to know. The saddest part is I'd guess that angle isn't even you. You strike me as the type of brother that would loudly and publicly denounce xenophobia, yet in an attempt to hurt me you turned to the same ideology - oh the hypocrisy...

Stay blessed my brother, if you ever need temporary housing assistance, message me

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ShadyAdvise t1_jdz52w9 wrote

Reply to comment by futuregeneration in RVA vs. Evernest by harpervn

I do offer free housing to many that do need it, if you'd like I'll place you in a townhouse I have on the Southside for up to 90 days until you are able to get back on your feet.

That is besides the point that in America, you have the freedom to move and the opportunity to start over. That doesn't exist in my country, yet all I hear is bitching from Americans instead of taking advantage of the opportunity that the majority of the world would beg for

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ShadyAdvise t1_jde6md2 wrote

41 minutes is pretty average for DPU hold times, can easily be an hour +. My record was just under 2 hours to get someone on the line. I'd suggest going to their office in person if you want faster service, it's on 25th St. and is repeated in their automated hold system

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ShadyAdvise t1_j9j9rh4 wrote

You are moving the goals posts my brother, I never typed the word guarantee before this reply. You are stating that because marriage offers no guarantee of a successful relationships or parenting you advise against getting married? Seat belts don't guarantee my safety in a car but I still advise people to wear them.

Why would you be against prayer? I made no mention of religion, I said "Pray regularly". You can speak your intentions to the universe, you can say the lord's prayer if you're Christian, you can say ayat al kursi if you're Muslim. I made no mention of religion, I spoke on spiritually. Please explain why you'd advise against strengthening your faith and ties to the universe.

I give someone advise and tell them what they need to do to better their life and that became judgemental how? Did I say "Oh I'd never do this...you're an idiot for doing that..." No. I don't know this man or what allowed him to end up in this predicament, who am I to judge him. But I can recognize that he's hurting and looking for help, and you don't do that unless you made decisions that have put you in a position of hurting.

You're projecting your own assumptions onto my advise. Realize that you advised this man against working hard, against getting your mind right. All because you had a strong emotional reaction to my advise. Which most likely stems from a previously bad experience with someone who have similar advise as mine. Take a step back brother and realize what we've EACH WRITTEN. Not what you can infer, from your assumption, based off your experience with people who say...but what we've EACH WRITTEN. And you'll find that to disagree with EVERYTHING I've advised is asinine, fairly immature, and speaks to your projections moreso than my words

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