SirVanyel

SirVanyel t1_jdphrox wrote

He probably noticed that you never let go of your wheel, or the times that you did the car veered off

It's probably the best way to spot if someone's not servicing their car regularly, considering wheel alignments are ultra cheap and are sometimes even done for free alongside a service.

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SirVanyel t1_j8mloio wrote

Well, you're not gonna stop experiencing stuff, so why invite the misery of experiences you aren't currently having? That mental and emotional space could be better spent investing in yourself for the future you, a version of you that's better for relationships.

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SirVanyel t1_j8ml85p wrote

Correct. You aren't able to control reality over the short term, but you can control how you react to it. It takes years, decades, to change your life, but you can change your reaction in weeks or months, and to be honest, removing that misery from your mental space will open up room for things that serve you better

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SirVanyel t1_j0nkl11 wrote

Feel free to elaborate on how the psychological phenomenons differ, because as somebody who does believe in myself I see no functional difference between believing in someone else and believing in myself. The mental structure is the same, the fear of failure is the same, and the reward when you can trust your belief is the same.

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