Spitfir4
Spitfir4 t1_jd5a7q6 wrote
Reply to LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
I operate on a philosophy assume ignorance before malice.
If you say something offensive I assume you didn't mean to offend me the first time.
Spitfir4 t1_jd76b2s wrote
Reply to comment by sekhmet1010 in LPT: don't assume dishonesty or malice. You and others' lives will be much happier. by Alcoraiden
I think this is pretty solid approach. My mum is always the victim as well and it just seems to torment her and she doesn't want to take control of the situation.