32M software developer from VA. First heard “Up Jumped the Devil” when I played through Alan Wake around 2010, then heard “Red Right Hand” while watching through The X Files a couple of years later. Then dove into his newer stuff.

So sorry for what you’ve been through.

Terror Starts at Home by Beneath the Sky

Amazing Things by Don Broco, S16 by Woodkid, Destrier by Agent Fresco, What To Do When You Are Dead by Armor for Sleep, Land Animal by Bent Knee, Sempiternal by Bring Me the Horizon

I’d add Agent Fresco and Others By No One to the list of prog rock/metal.

If what you’re looking for is a way to discover new music and you have some idea of the type of music you’d like to find (e.g. prog metal, sad songs, pop, etc.), I’d recommend creating a Pandora station based on a song or artist that represents that style. I’ve also discovered music by looking at the “Listeners also bought” section of the iTunes Store when viewing a particular album.

If what you’re looking for is reviews/commentary on music you already know, I know a lot of people like The Needle Drop (I personally am not a fan, but he does cover a lot of music across a fairly wide array of genres, so if nothing else it might be a good source for exposing yourself to a variety of music).