Why do you think it’s wrong to think that?

Alright man I do really appreciate your advice

Alright man thank you

You’re probably right. I think we jumped into a relationship too soon and theres still some things I need to come to terms with in order to have a healthy relationship.

You’re probably right to be honest

You say that, but i am friends with girls that are honest enough around me about how they miss the sex with their former partners, regardless of them having a boyfriend now. The thought of those same words being said by MY girlfriend eats me

But now that we have had that unnecessary conversation, where do we go from here? Is there any easier way to get over it? Is there something i need to understand to think of the situation differently?

Responding to your last sentence, I feel like if she doesnt tell me the thought of it will just eat me alive. Like when she told me about them i obviously wasnt happy but i was glad i knew rather than not knowing at all. One of the questions i asked her when we were talking about our former hookups was whether or not i had known or met any of them. I asked if i shook any of their hands before and she said yes and that comment felt like someone shot me in the stomach. Knowing that I dapped up someone that knew they had slept with my girlfriend before, unbeknownst to me

To answer the question at the end of your last paragraph, I just feel like in some way I want to be the best that she’s had. I see it as if she’s satisfied with me she wouldnt even think about her prior flings