Uiluj

Uiluj t1_j91hcgr wrote

I think it's the reality of living in a city with millions of people. Even if only a tiny fraction of that population are creepy misogynists, that loud and sexually aggressive minority will be overrepresented in public spaces.

I think it depends on the community, job sector, etc. I think the younger generation are more likely to be compassionate with the lived experience of women in nyc. But there's still a non-negligible amount of machismo and objectification going on.

I have no dating advice on how to navigate romance while be cognizant of the patriarchy. Just be friendly and nice, and people can usually read your intentions if you have no ulterior motive. If you're looking for a longterm romantic relationship, Just be yourself and honest. You save yourself from a lot of trouble and heartbreak.

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Uiluj t1_j917edw wrote

I've had an guys ask me if I was in high school and where I go to school. If I tell them I'm an adult, they would keep insisting I look really young, where do I live, and where I was going.

It is a horrible predicament. Its never someone who's nice and friendly, its always some creepy aggressive pedophile. If it was a social setting like a bar, I might want to have a conversation if men knew how to handle rejection. But on the bus, please don't follow me home.

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