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Uiluj t1_j917edw wrote
Reply to comment by volkommm in I just wanted to ask a girl for directions on the subway, and she absolutely made my day by skyeyemx
I've had an guys ask me if I was in high school and where I go to school. If I tell them I'm an adult, they would keep insisting I look really young, where do I live, and where I was going.
It is a horrible predicament. Its never someone who's nice and friendly, its always some creepy aggressive pedophile. If it was a social setting like a bar, I might want to have a conversation if men knew how to handle rejection. But on the bus, please don't follow me home.
Uiluj t1_j67zcd8 wrote
Reply to comment by Grass8989 in NYC protests of Tyre Nichols death draw more than 100; three arrested as Times Square protester smashes police car windshield by [deleted]
A 100 people and one broken windshield. Pretty sure 100 ants would've been a more violent and destructive force.
Uiluj t1_j3kgarm wrote
Reply to comment by bangbangthreehunna in Talks continue as approximately 9,000 nurses threaten to strike at 4 NYC hospitals by DrogDrill
I have a feeling that the people who complain about cops being hands off against crime are the same people who are against the nurse strike.
And also the same people who brings up crime in posts that have nothing to do with crime.
Uiluj t1_j3k9peq wrote
Reply to comment by bangbangthreehunna in Talks continue as approximately 9,000 nurses threaten to strike at 4 NYC hospitals by DrogDrill
Nurses signed up for unions for contract negotiations and the right to strike.
Uiluj t1_ity4vgh wrote
Reply to comment by cakeschristmas in Since the pandemic, subway seat hogs have really been on some bullshit by cakeschristmas
unionize and try to get breaks where you can sit and drink water, at least.
Uiluj t1_itnve3y wrote
Reply to comment by supermechace in The NYPD’s Most-Complained-About Cop Speaks Out in Defense of Aggressive Arrests by LittleWind_
They're 56 substantiated allegations of misconduct. The allegations wouldn't be substantiated as misconduct if they were justified actions to restrain violent individuals.
Uiluj t1_j91hcgr wrote
Reply to comment by iv2892 in I just wanted to ask a girl for directions on the subway, and she absolutely made my day by skyeyemx
I think it's the reality of living in a city with millions of people. Even if only a tiny fraction of that population are creepy misogynists, that loud and sexually aggressive minority will be overrepresented in public spaces.
I think it depends on the community, job sector, etc. I think the younger generation are more likely to be compassionate with the lived experience of women in nyc. But there's still a non-negligible amount of machismo and objectification going on.
I have no dating advice on how to navigate romance while be cognizant of the patriarchy. Just be friendly and nice, and people can usually read your intentions if you have no ulterior motive. If you're looking for a longterm romantic relationship, Just be yourself and honest. You save yourself from a lot of trouble and heartbreak.