You both have flea problems. You both need to treat the flea problems together. Maybe hire the same pest control company.

As far as the stray cats, they need to be kept away from the houses. Otherwise the flea problems will continue.

The other option is they catch all the cats and take them to the Vet to be treated. Granted they can get fleas again.

Actually no. Not eating soft cheese and lunch meat as well as washing salad mix has been a thing for pregnant women for decades. I think even the smoked salmon has too. I was told no shellfish either and fully cooked steak.

He doesn't care that you're running yourself into the ground while he barely works. He doesn't understand that him taking the training job would have put him a step or two closer to owning a gym.

He has no path to achieve his dream of owning a gym. At 33 he should have it mapped out. It's not simply train some people here and there and then you open a gym. Like another person said, a trainer is a side gig.

You don't want biological children and he does. This isn't going to change for you. You have very good reasons why you don't.

Your husband is 25 and way too old to fall for something like that. I think he was actually having an affair, the woman found out about you, possibly blackmailed him, and then exposed him to everyone when he said no. You have no proof of what happened since he blocked them and deleted all the messages.

He needs to know that muscle weighs more than fat. He also needs to eat more than once a day in order for his body to be able to function and to support his working out. Look at body builders. They don't eat only once a day. He can get a personal trainer who will help him navigate this and support him. In addition to you.

I forgot about that.

Pretty sure he was well educated too.

50 Shades of Grey is another one. He is rich and handsome yet he is abusive. If he wasn't rich it would have been an episode of Criminal Minds or CSI.

No kidding. I had gallstones 15 years ago. I was told they can treat it, but the odds are good they would return, so I decided surgery as I didn't want to go through the pain I kept having. It got so much worse the week before the surgery which showed I had made the right choice.

She doesn't care about your health. No good friend would ever ask and manipulate you into putting your health at risk to come visit. The visit could have been rescheduled for after her boyfriend is over whatever he has.

Oh.

Seriously? They expect their friends to send them money?

Planning a wedding is stressful. She doesn't have time to text everyone back every day. She has to deal with the venue, vendors, finding her wedding dress, etc. Even the most chill people can get overwhelmed by all the decisions that need to be made when planning a wedding.

Exactly.

Or it could be that he just doesn't want to be with OP anymore. You're not obligated to stay with someone you're not happy with. He's not happy and ended things.