I think some of what you are saying is accurate. I think we are all tired of the SAHM vs working mom/parent argument though. I’ve personally done both. I can say for a fact that both are equally challenging - just in different ways.
What I find alarming with this guy’s post is the wife actually saying “my needs are more important than yours.” She isn’t even saying that their needs are different. Just point blank that hers are more important.
That smacks of entitlement and arrogance.
OP, your needs are also important. This whole “happy wife, happy life” thing needs to be left in 2022.
YogurtclosetOk6197 t1_j2fbdvm wrote
Reply to comment by trilliumsummer in (34F)(34M) she said my needs don’t matter. I said if she honestly believes that we shouldn’t be together. by ThrowRA_tireddad22
I think some of what you are saying is accurate. I think we are all tired of the SAHM vs working mom/parent argument though. I’ve personally done both. I can say for a fact that both are equally challenging - just in different ways.
What I find alarming with this guy’s post is the wife actually saying “my needs are more important than yours.” She isn’t even saying that their needs are different. Just point blank that hers are more important.
That smacks of entitlement and arrogance.
OP, your needs are also important. This whole “happy wife, happy life” thing needs to be left in 2022.