OP has said they have thin glasses that others load into the dishwasher, I assume ineptly.

The jets in the various models in various people's homes I've used have all been gentle enough so they don't blast wine glasses over (and I normally take care when loading so they don't topple over easily). Only small plastic cat bowls get turned over by the jets.

We had a Bosch that lasted about 30 years.

But I'd be concerned about how glass keeps getting broken. I can only recall that happening once, when I knocked over a wine glass. Correction: it happened a second time when I mistakenly put a long-stemmed glass in and pushed the rack in.