againblahisnothere

againblahisnothere t1_jb3mucj wrote

No- sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.

If you can’t argue than you’re fucking dumb and don’t belong in civilized society because you’re so stupid you can’t see past your anger.

Human beings have self control.

There’s also trashy people who were raised by trashy people who think violence is ok. Throw the parents in jail too

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againblahisnothere t1_j9jwolg wrote

Actually we do know. They come from homes where a parent will abuse (physical and verbal) and neglect them. This has a direct impact on brain development and the ability to self regulate. When you hit a two year old, you’re putting them in stress mode. Not healthy for a developing brain. This isn’t rocket science. It’s really not their fault but at the same time it’s not fair for them to be disrupting other peoples education. In reality those parents need to be educated and those patterns of abuse need to be broken but saying you’re a shit parent has a condescending tone- not sure what program would address this.

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againblahisnothere t1_iys2yzs wrote

call 311 or contact the DOB. Make sure you have the smoke policy of your building to reference. Any residential building with more than three units needs to have one. There’s prob a line in your lease stating the building is smoke free and there should be signs in your building too. Chances are the landlord would get fined for allowing them to do that, which may finally cause him/her to spring into action.

Have you had the chance to speak with your super about this? He or she might know the people and can prob speak to them if you’re not comfortable.

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againblahisnothere t1_iug6bet wrote

I grew up here. It’s hard to leave family- it’s why I don’t see myself leaving anytime soon.

Are you planning on having kids? I feel like that could be a good reason to leave. I can’t imagine having kids and worrying about their safety. I wouldn’t be ok with them seeing open drug use.

And yeah you can always come back if you don’t like it.

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