I'm sorry that you're getting hate here. Some of these people clearly don't understand autism.

You made an honest mistake, and if he loves you he'll get over it.

I did read the post, I just don't see how doing the same thing her grandparents did solves any problems.

Edit: in my above comment I was referring to the authorities as the adults on her side, not her grandparents. Maybe that's where you got confused.

That's not a good idea, let's not make the only adults on her side angry at her too

Edit: only adults on her side as in the authorities. Fuck the grandparents but doing the same thing as them doesn't help anyone.