What’s your budget?

I think a combination of access to the pike and new or redone houses in their price range probably knock these communities out.

All of what you said about Longmeadow is true but the houses are mostly on the older side since the town was built out by the 1970s. Getting an updated or new house in that price range might be difficult.

East Longmeadow and Wilbraham have newer houses but highway access can be difficult. They are also less walkable compared to Longmeadow but have more of the farm feel. That being said, they are also more politically conservative.

Based on the experience of family members OP’s age, I think Grafton is probably their best bet.

If you didn’t have the commute, I would say West Hartford. Since you have the commute, I would check out South Windsor or Middletown.

South Windsor is going to be cheaper both in terms of upfront cost and property taxes. It’s also most likely going to be an easier commute. The con is you will have to travel (but not far) for good food and outdoor recreation.

Middletown on the other hand has a higher cost of living and most likely a worse commute but has more things to do.

Up to you. Best of luck!

It’s great until you have planes flying over your house all the time.

What’s your budget? Do you have any particular hobbies or activities that you enjoy?

What’s the range of your antenna? Where are you setting it up in your house?