That sounds like elderly abuse. She shouldn't have to support anyone. I'm sorry about your grandmother.

Hey I talked to a friend about the AA program and he told me that the people there don't believe in stopping addiction without the program. He told me they believe you are going to start using again its only when, and that the program is the only way to really recover. Anyone else seen this response? He and I quit smoking for a year for him and 6 months for me. He also told me that when you fall off the program once its like becoming an outcast in the group. Im sure it helps people but he made it sound more like a click and it's ment to get good with God first then overcome your demons.