Her bonus should be included on her W-2. Either listed separately on the W-2 as a bonus, or part of her income total.

I had a backyard wedding, and probably a 10 minute ceremony like you just mentioned. Tons of food, alcohol and music. It seemed like everyone had a blast and stayed pretty late. We had people there till midnight.

I don't know, it sounds more like you open up old wounds from something that happened to her in her past. Someone may have hurt her in a sexual way, and what you did triggered those memories. Now those memories are fresh at the surface, and you're her source of fear right now because of that.

I get the way she was when you first got together didn't bother you. And over time after everyone throwing it in your face, things get old and you want them to change...

There's not enough info here to know exactly what went down. But if you are a good guy, and care about her, I suggest sitting down and talking to her.

Although I wouldn't mention you think she was sexually assaulted or anything, is she hasn't brought that up. But let her know you would never hurt her, if you truly wouldn't.

Whatever the outcome, I hope she's okay and gets over this.

Forgot to add, op didn't mention she was a breastfeeding mom. I was just throwing that out there, in case she was one.

Hmmm... She didn't specify whether she was a stay-at-home mom or not. If she was a stay-at-home mom, I suppose there's nothing wrong with it being mostly her... However, if she's also working too, (which nowadays a good portion of mothers are) then that's what's wrong with it. If both parents are working then he should have gotten his ass up in the middle of the night and helped too!

And breastfeeding moms have it worse, not only do they go to work, during breaks, they have to pump their milk for the baby, instead of enjoying and relaxing their break.

Ummm.... I'm so glad I never use that emoji because I truly thought it was simply an eggplant as well.

Me too!

I died and laughed my ass off as soon as I read, "Where's my gerbils?"