As someone from the upper Midwest and have lived in the seacoast for 5 years, I am not surprised by your plan, as it is also our plan.

I was wondering if you had read The Water Knife, which I've been meaning to read.

That would be amazing. Thank you!

Do you happen to remember the name of the book? That sounds like an interesting read.

I'd say it is difficult, especially if you're a transplant. My best successes have been mingling with gym regulars over time and buddy hikes. With hiking, most of the people who have become friends are 20-30+ years older than I am. They know what they want from their hobbies, and they're very dependable with scheduling and being on time!

Other comments mentioning joining a local group or sport, the best way of befriending locals is just being around consistently. It can take a while, but everyone is really nice. The phrase "fast friend" hasn't been a thing for me out here unless I meet other transplants. Good luck!

I would say visit later. My family from WI visited in April, and it was rainy and windy the whole time. I didn't get to show them anything pretty outdoors, which I specifically would have wanted to drive them to a short hike in the Whites.