pocomoonshine

pocomoonshine t1_ja6wxcr wrote

Marriage is an outdated concept. It's not romantic, it's a legal contract. It makes some people feel safe, but it actually does none of that effectively. It does not mean you will spend the rest of your life together. A verbal agreement that you intend to spend the rest of your life together is effectively the same thing. Equally valid. And equally unenforceable.

Marriage does not mean true love, no matter how you look at it. Its just language that implies true love, and the illusion or hope for true love for some people.

That said, you should be able to communicate freely with your partner about your values and work it out. What is true love? That is the question. He may truly love you, but is speaking in different terms.

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