ranaparvus

ranaparvus t1_jdhd4lc wrote

Your BIL needs to read “Divorce in Vermont” updated edition, by Nicholas Hayden and Cynthia Broadfoot. There are a lot of quirky laws in this state, and this book covers them - but won’t replace a lawyer, if needed. Having to meet his ex’s boyfriend isn’t one of them, however.

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ranaparvus t1_jblxmaj wrote

Yes. Everyone here is well aquatinted with where they can hunt. But ultimately for me, while I was on 70 acres, I could hear the gunfire elsewhere and for me alone it was a problem. I’m now in a condo but have a protected 95 acre public back yard. With trails and loads of wildlife. Heaven for me.

ETA My horses and dogs were also freaked out by the gunfire, so not just me. I absolutely love Vermont but for this one thing, and the happy median I found was where I am now.

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ranaparvus t1_jbls4hw wrote

I’m straight but both of my kids are exploring who they are. The communities and schools here are super inclusive. There are some redder areas that will be less friendly - but even in those, if one of you are able to join the volunteer fire/ems service it will go a long way to build respect even with the silly trumpers/don’t tread on me crowd.

Something I was not prepared for here was the hunting. My problem, for sure, but hearing gunfire almost every day when I lived in the sticks was traumatic for me. I’m much happier now in a little town, and ironically my kids love it as they can walk about and have fun with their buddies.

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ranaparvus t1_jb531zs wrote

Bit of a drive, but Middlebury. Nice college town with walkable downtown, international baccalaureate middle and high school, fantastic amenities for kids all within walking distance (ice rink, pool, rec center, music center, movie theater, restaurants, library, hospital etc.). Close to snow bowl, loads of hikes. Tight and expensive market, but much better ROI in respect to kids than many other towns.

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