talking_phallus
talking_phallus t1_j1aeajz wrote
talking_phallus t1_j1abosm wrote
Reply to comment by ellem45678 in LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist
It's messy. MESSY.
talking_phallus t1_j1abg8e wrote
Reply to comment by brusiddit in LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist
Not finding evidence can eat away at you just as much. You'll second guess yourself, believe their and probably some other people's gas lighting, blame yourself for being the real problem, etc.
You catch them in the act then at least you have closure.
talking_phallus t1_j1ab42v wrote
Reply to comment by ellem45678 in LPT: Don't spy on your SO to try to catch them cheating. If you can't trust them, just break up. by 5YOChemist
I mean it don't hurt to have proof before breaking it off. I feel like long term it would be healthier to have that closure. Plus if you're married then do everything you can to catch them in the act before you divorce. "Just leave" is cute but it's very much not applicable to all situations.
talking_phallus t1_je1fhql wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Bathtime, me, graphite on paper, 2021 by hannahmusial_art
Be nice! Maybe OP is a time traveler from the early Renaissance.