Support him? What is that you are doing right now, if it isn't supporting him?!

He makes $800-1200 per month for part time work, you pay all the shared bills and his bills too, while working 60 hour weeks.

If that's not "supporting him" financially and otherwise, what else should you, could you, possibly be doing?

He's taking advantage of you, he's mooching, and this is financial abuse. You are living with his father because this is the path of least resistance, and ease, for him, and he sees no reason to change it, and he absolutely won't change it in anyway that involves more effort on his part.

Dump this loser. You can afford to make it on your own, and it will be easier when you aren't paying his rent and his car payment.

I'm sorry to say, your relationship was doomed when he ignored you while you were going through an abortion.

If your partner can't be there for you during illness and hard times, then he's not worth any of the good times, because the good times are EASY. The hard times will really show you your partner's character.

He showed you his total lack of character when he withdrew from you instead of supporting you. You should have ended it right there.

All the other stuff you two have done to each other, while clinging to this dumpster fire relationship just prove the point I already made.

Please put this thing out of it' misery and move on. You deserve to be happy, and you deserve someone who will stick with you during tough times. It's not this guy.