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PolarBear374665 t1_jeh27aw wrote

Reply to comment by whatcanitellyaboy in (Serious) What are some good responses to someone you haven’t seen in 45 yrs who thinks you are the same person you were at 16? by whatcanitellyaboy

It really somewhat depends on the dynamics of the relationship (then and now). But, generically, if they are trying to get you to engage in behaviors you not longer find interesting or acceptable, something along the lines of “I’ve changed a lot since you last knew me and no longer do (fill in the blank)”.

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whatcanitellyaboy OP t1_jeh513b wrote

Not engaging in behaviors, more along the lines of she knows me. Knows my type, etc. wanting to label me a certain way that’s not who I am at all. Not even close. And no, they’re not particularly good or nice labels.

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