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ChefGirlRD1738 OP t1_jagfvql wrote

Don’t forget to mention that to your therapist

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hellopomelo t1_jags8fz wrote

but that's what I come to reddit for free for so i don't have to go outside. You get what you pay for i guess

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MonokuroMonkey t1_jahptd6 wrote

I mean, I'd agree that kind of negativity was uncalled for but they have a point. Nepotism is rampant in many countries, mine included. It can be extremely discouraging, which is why I've started applying only to international companies. But those who don't speak English might not be so lucky.

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CornCheeseMafia t1_jaht363 wrote

Just because the world is unfair as a whole doesn’t mean you have to dwell on your insecurities about your place in it.

You may get screwed by a company but the lesson to take from that is that bad luck is always going to be a thing, not that you’re not good enough.

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MonokuroMonkey t1_jai6xzt wrote

No, you misunderstand me. I agree that others not seeing your worth should have no bearing on your own self-perception, and that the world is unfair. I'm just expressing sympathy for GratefulConception40.

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