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BryKKan t1_it8rgbq wrote

Reply to comment by nxdark in [Image] "Toxic Positivity is Forced..." - Susan David by true90sstory

Are you going to come help me solve it? Or is it all just preaching and no consideration of problems more serious than you can "solve" alone?

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nxdark t1_it90ksd wrote

I normally come up with solutions to those problems. If I don't have a solution there is no point in me engaging in that conversation.

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BryKKan t1_it977gr wrote

I didn't ask you to intellectually determine the solution. I know the solution. I asked if you were going to come over here and help do the work of implementing it.

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nxdark t1_it9b57o wrote

Why would I do that? I don't know you and have zero investment in you either. So the only thing I have to offer for free is an intellectual solution to your problems to stop your wasteful feelings.

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BryKKan t1_it9c2o5 wrote

Why would you have any justification for judging my actions, much less my feelings if you aren't contributing to the solution yourself?

Why should we see you as anything other than toxic for presuming to so judge?

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nxdark t1_it9code wrote

Because my contribution is the intellectual solution because that is what you need to move past your emotions that are controlling you. The emotion and feelings you have are your worse enemy.

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BryKKan t1_it9cyh8 wrote

That's disturbing in so many ways.

No. Other people can find solutions too. Sometimes it's not possible to make the required changes alone. Your contribution is nil, because you're not offering anything of positive value. Just telling people their emotions are getting in the way is irrational and unhelpful.

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