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magdeedz OP t1_ja6ei6v wrote

Reply to comment by fulanomengano in LPT request: Can anyone give me a couple ideas or things to try, that might alleviate some of the guilt and shame I (28F) feel? by magdeedz

That’s a pretty ignorant comment to have made in my opinion. You made that assumption off of an incredibly insignificant amount of knowledge about me, or the kind of person I am, OR the efforts I’ve made since being sober to fix things. Who the fuck are you to tell me that I haven’t apologized? That I haven’t made efforts to better the lives of those I’ve hurt in the past? All because I didn’t mention that in my r/LIFEPROTIP request post? (Emphasis on the “request” part) So why do you even comment?

To each their own I guess?

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fulanomengano t1_ja6eymm wrote

You didn’t mention a single word about apologizing. If you really are a good person and want to feel better, you would have realized that any steps you took to mend your mistakes is the most important thing to mention. Not your half ass therapy or religion or whatever. Those are for your own benefit, not for the benefit of the people you hurt. Since you are not getting it, it kinds of confirms my assessment.

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magdeedz OP t1_ja6hxij wrote

There was a lot of “important” information about me that was left out of that post. You made an ignorant assumption of me based off of about idk 75 words? This is something I really struggle with and have for a long time, and if I don’t fix it, it’s going to take me back out. I was genuinely asking for any help anyone had, because this life or death for me personally.

But you went out of your way to try and make me feel small and unworthy, because I didn’t include that I have apologized and tried to fix things? Because it’s “important to you”?

Yet I sound like the terrible person?

One last thing, you also tried to make sound like a selfish person because I wanted advice on how to heal, but the main and really the only current reason I want to heal is so that I can continue to be there and continue being a good mom to 4 year old son, to give him the life he deserves. One thing I am not, is selfish. I’m incredibly selfless actually, to a fault.

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magdeedz OP t1_ja6idk2 wrote

Bottom line is you know nothing about me…. And you seem like you have poor judge of character based off your comments. You made yourself sound incredibly shallow.

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