Bottom line is you know nothing about me…. And you seem like you have poor judge of character based off your comments. You made yourself sound incredibly shallow.

There was a lot of “important” information about me that was left out of that post. You made an ignorant assumption of me based off of about idk 75 words? This is something I really struggle with and have for a long time, and if I don’t fix it, it’s going to take me back out. I was genuinely asking for any help anyone had, because this life or death for me personally.

But you went out of your way to try and make me feel small and unworthy, because I didn’t include that I have apologized and tried to fix things? Because it’s “important to you”?

Yet I sound like the terrible person?

One last thing, you also tried to make sound like a selfish person because I wanted advice on how to heal, but the main and really the only current reason I want to heal is so that I can continue to be there and continue being a good mom to 4 year old son, to give him the life he deserves. One thing I am not, is selfish. I’m incredibly selfless actually, to a fault.

That’s a pretty ignorant comment to have made in my opinion. You made that assumption off of an incredibly insignificant amount of knowledge about me, or the kind of person I am, OR the efforts I’ve made since being sober to fix things. Who the fuck are you to tell me that I haven’t apologized? That I haven’t made efforts to better the lives of those I’ve hurt in the past? All because I didn’t mention that in my r/LIFEPROTIP request post? (Emphasis on the “request” part) So why do you even comment?

To each their own I guess?

I did not like NA… at least the NA meetings near me. No one was serious, lots of selling and using at meetings. Not a lot of sobriety time. I did try AA for about a year. Met some old dudes that were very wise. I never made it past step four. And eventually slowly stopped going.

Thank you so much.